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5 Public Speaking Tips to Keep in Mind

Public speaking will always be one of the most common fears of every person – even the experienced public speaker experiences nervousness, too. It may just take you a few minutes to stand in front and say your speech, but that short time can be filled with worries of forgetting your lines, making a mistake, being publicly ridiculed and humiliated, and so on. While everyone makes mistakes and practice and experience can make public speaking so much easier as time goes by, it doesn’t hurt to know some public speaking tips to keep in mind. Here are some of them:

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Learn from the masters.

Not everyone has a talent for public speaking, but you have to remember that even the most successful and popular speakers started at the bottom, too. They may have the skill to deliver their speech gracefully but it takes some charisma and right attitude to catch and sustain the interest of your listeners. As you make a career out of speaking in various engagements, don’t hesitate to check out different successful speakers. What makes them successful and what keeps them apart as good examples? You can surely learn a thing or two from listening to public speeches and taking note of the speaker’s style.

Be familiar with the room.

As much as possible, familiarize yourself with the room you’ll be speaking in as this can likely diminish some of the stress and apprehension brought about by the upcoming event. A lot of times, nervousness that one experiences during a public speech is not mostly about delivering the speech itself; it’s also because of the unfamiliar surroundings that causes the anxiety levels to rise.

Know what you’re saying.

There is a great difference between being flexible with your speech and knowing what you need to talk about. Going with the flow is recommended, as you can edit some parts of your speech impromptu to make it more interesting to your listeners. However, even the pros won’t recommend going into that stage without preparing anything – it may make you feel cool whipping something up at a spur of the moment, but don’t push your luck too much. You can feel and appear more confident if you know what you’re talking about, backed with research and some preparation.

Know who you are talking to.

No matter how brilliant you think your speech is, it may appear dull and uninteresting to your listeners if they can’t relate to what you’re saying. This is why it’s really necessary to at least have a background of the people you’re talking to. Give them what they want according to how they want it – this will make the speech more targeted at them and more catered at their interests.

Take a breath and relax.

Do you know the saying that you are your own worst critic? That is really true, as many of us criticize ourselves too much for our every wrong doing. You may have skipped a point of two on your notes, or you may have been unable to click the presentation slide in time. At the end of the day, you will only be the one who will know about your mistake. Even if someone knows about your error, you shouldn’t make it matter that much. You still have more speeches to go in this lifetime – you have a lot of time on your hands to practice more and be a better speaker.

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Attention Grabbing Technique for Public Speakers

There are many attention grabbing techniques we can employ to keep the audience glued to us. Here’s a surefire method: Find some excuse to get someone on stage with you. When a member of the audience is on stage, trust me, the rest of the audience will concentrate fully for the following reasons:

1. They probably want to see what is going to happen to a fellow member.

2. Maybe they are mentally preparing themselves to be up on stage too.

3. Some of them may be worrying to death that they may be asked to be up there.

Whatever the reasons may be, congratulations, you have grabbed their attention.

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However, you need to create some counter measures to tackle reason number 3. You need to keep your shy or sensitive audience from withdrawing from your program altogether because of the fear that they may be asked to stand up in front of everyone.

I’ve experienced this situation myself. Often I’m invited to a Tamil speaking function. As a Tamil leader, I am expected to address the audience in Tamil. Unfortunately, my command of the Tamil language is pathetic. Therefore, I cringe with embarrassment every time I face the possibility of addressing the audience in Tamil.

Similarly, your audience may also cringe with embarrassment for various unknown reasons.

Therefore, the technique that I employ is to first plant one or two ‘volunteers’ among the audience. These ‘volunteers’ would have been briefed in advance on what to expect and do. Once I get the ball rolling with these ‘volunteers’ the others will gain the courage to come forward voluntarily.

In order to minimize the chance of withdrawal you can also make the following statement:

In a moment I’m going to ask for a volunteer to come on stage with me. Don’t worry. No one will be forced to do so against their will.

If you have a high percentage of shy audience members, you will be able to feel their relief.

Once they are on stage, you can proceed with some sort of demonstration which you planned for. Make sure you give them some kind of prize. One of your products is usually good because it gives you a chance to mention it without using a hard sell. And just about always lead the audience in a round of applause for the demonstrator as they return to their seat.

Good Luck in your next presentation.

Now that you have gained some useful pointers on how to become a better public speaker, I encourage you not to stop here. Keep “sharpening your saw” by getting practical experience on public speaking. Grab the opportunity to speak in public as often as possible. The more stage time you accrue, the higher your self-esteem and confidence will become. Do purchase my book called Fearless Public Speaking at http://www.betterpublicspeaking.com/fearless-public-speaking-2/ This 11,500+ word book will give you more pointers towards becoming a seasoned orator. I look forward to that wonderful day in your life when you will become ‘complete’ and you will discover your true purpose in this world. May you discover it through your public speaking endeavors.

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Managing Stage Fright and Vulnerability

Oh dear… your chest feels heavy, your throat is constricted and you feel like crying. You suddenly feel vulnerable facing the audience. The dignitaries are in the room and they expect a good performance from you. A sick feeling is rising and about to overpower your diligently rehearsed speech. The timing couldn’t be worse. This is your moment of truth. You need to portray strength, confidence and most importantly, professionalism.

Oops, too late. A tear trickles down your cheek and more bad stuff is coming.

The anxiety of breaking down, fainting or weeping in front of strangers is a powerful and common fear. I understand how vulnerable you feel. Many speakers would react in the following ways:-

• Rehearse the speech intensively prior to the presentation for added confidence.
• Become invisible with no voice & fade into oblivion.
• Resign to fate and enjoy the flawed glory.

Which would you choose? Here a story of my friend, Adeline who shared her story with me.

Adeline was a successful public speaker. Her audience consisted of enthusiastic, enterprising and eager property investors. Her raving fans traveled from all nooks and crannies of Singapore to hear her speak.

One fine day after one of her talks, I had the opportunity to interview her. “Adeline,” I asked. “Have you always been such a captivating, charismatic and charming speaker?” Adeline was silent for a moment For once, she seemed lost for words. Tears welled up in her beautiful eyes.

With a quivering voice, she said, “I owe my success to an elusive holy man. I started my public speaking career in a disastrous manner. In my maiden speech, my mind went blank. It was the most embarrassing moment of my life. I had forgotten what to say. One week later, I had to deliver another speech. This time my stomach felt queasy. Within minutes of speaking, I had soiled my skirt. Immediately after my speech, I had to leave the auditorium because I smelled awful. And the story goes on…

To Cry Or Not To Cry Is The Question
These are some ideas you could use if you are in the same boat:-

• Shift the focus away from yourself and instead focus your attention on the audience. Remember, the majority of them want you to succeed. In most cases, they have nothing personal against you.

• Stop being angry with yourself for all your past failures in public speaking. As the stock market investors would say, “the past does not equal the future.” The more “failure” thoughts you harbor in your mind, the more likely your presentation will end up a failure.

What You Can Do Now
One of the quickest ways to learn how to handle something you find challenging is to observe how others do it. In Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), it’s called Modeling. Here’s a good speech portraying Candy who handles her tears graciously. Go ahead and Model her.

http://www.ted.com/talks/candy_chang_before_i_die_i_want_to.html

Next time strong emotion arises in you when you speak in public, just notice it and don’t get caught up in the story. Instead, pause and connect through your eyes with another person to help keep you grounded. Pause and continue with your speech.

My friend, Toastmaster Azmi taught me a simple method to recover from such emotional overwhelming situations. He asked me to look out for a caring, cheerful & friendly face among the audience. The kind of supportive audience who will nod agreeably to you when you speak. Every time I felt like crying, fearful, etc, he asked me to look at that friendly face for emotional support. By doing so, I was able to recover faster and get on with the show.

I’ve cried a number of times when speaking in public. Guess what, the audience cried together with me! However, it is not good to leave the audience is a sad state when the speech is over. Therefore, it is always advisable to uplift their spirits and cheer them up before leaving the stage. It certainly feels like a storm has passed through leaving behind peace and tranquility. Your words will flow much better once the pent up emotions are released. “Better out than in” as someone infamous once said, and through my tears, I couldn’t agree more.

Good luck 🙂

Now that you have gained some useful pointers on how to become a better public speaker, I encourage you not to stop here. Keep “sharpening your saw” by getting practical experience on public speaking. Grab the opportunity to speak in public as often as possible. The more stage time you accrue, the higher your self-esteem and confidence will become.

Do purchase my book called Fearless Public Speaking at http://www.betterpublicspeaking.com/fearless-public-speaking-2/ This 11,500+ word book will give you more pointers towards becoming a seasoned orator. I look forward to that wonderful day in your life when you will become ‘complete’ and you will discover your true purpose in this world. May you discover it through your public speaking endeavors.

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Keep It Short and Simple

Let’s ponder upon the importance of keeping a speech short and simple. Here’s a famous quotation by Winston Churchill.

A good speech should be like a woman’s skirt: long enough to cover the essentials and short enough to arouse interest. – Winston Churchill

Winston my man, you cheeky fella, teasing the ladies with such a great “insight”.

Let me explain it this way. Serve the audiences’ needs, but logically speaking, you can’t solve all their problems. Cater your talk to induce self-discovery / self-realization in it. Create interest and buzz in your talk, but keep it short. Ask a lot of questions and let them figure the answers out themselves.

Like a beautiful woman in a sexy outfit, you don’t have to give all your tantalizing secrets away. Now, if only someone would tell some of the Bollywood starlets this.

Good Luck in your next presentation.

Now that you have gained some useful pointers on how to become a better public speaker, I encourage you not to stop here. Keep “sharpening your saw” by getting practical experience on public speaking. Grab the opportunity to speak in public as often as possible. The more stage time you accrue, the higher your self-esteem and confidence will become. Do purchase my book called Fearless Public Speaking at http://www.betterpublicspeaking.com/fearless-public-speaking-2/ This 11,500+ word book will give you more pointers towards becoming a seasoned orator. I look forward to that wonderful day in your life when you will become ‘complete’ and you will discover your true purpose in this world. May you discover it through your public speaking endeavors.

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Conquer Speaking Fear – 5 Tips

Here are some quick suggestions you could use to conquer your speaking fear when addressing the public speaking. I have compiled them from years of experience in reading books, attending seminars and observing my own fears. Go ahead and try the following steps and tell me how you feel in the comment box below.

Good Public Speaking Skill #1
Do Your Homework. Knowing oneself, knowing ones enemies. A hundred battles fought, a hundred battles won ~ Sun Tzu

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This sage advice from a brilliant military strategist from the ancient days of China. His words ring true in today’s world and is applicable in the public speaking arena.

Ask the organizers what they expect from your presentation. What do they really want to learn from it? What is their current knowledge about your subject? What value will they gain from your presentation? Such conversations will enroll these people as your friends during your presentation. It also helps you learn the current needs of the industry, so that you can deliver it. This is like collecting the answers to an exam before taking it.

What if they don’t know what they need / want? Don’t worry. Just ask them what their problems are and cater your talk to suit / solve their problems.

Good Public Speaking Skill #2
Prepare. Prepare for war when at peace – Sun Tzu

Aha, Mr. Sun Tzu is back again 🙂 Compose an outline, and write the entire script word for word for the important segments of it (such as the opening, body and conclusion). Then rehearse your presentation, without referring to the script until you know it so well that you can deliver it spontaneously. Avoid trying to memorize the entire script word for word. This will make your speech sound robotic and lifeless.

However, if you recall earlier, I asked to write your entire speech word for word. “Why?” you may ask. Well you could convert it into an audio book, sell it as a short story or convert it into a blog post in the future.

Good Public Speaking Skill #3
Rehearse. Practice your speech at all given moments and places. I normally rehearse my speech while driving. This is the only time I’m alone to talk to myself 🙂 Another curious motorist on the next lane would probably think that I’m talking on the phone using my hands-free device. Another benefit of rehearsing while driving is it reduces my frustration of being caught in nasty traffic snarl.

Join a Toastmasters Club and deliver your speeches there prior to your “big day.” Ask your evaluator for comments on your strengths and areas of improvement. Also, use this as an opportunity to become familiar with the room and any equipment, such as a projector.

Good Public Speaking Skill #4
Befriend The Attendees. Arrive early so that you can befriend the attendees before your presentation. Shake their hands, thank them for coming and exchange business cards. Introduce yourself to them and get some small talk underway. Imagine them to be the guests coming to your party. This mindset will convert them from strangers into your friends. Sometimes, I’m bewildered as to how some speakers will show up for a speaking engagement and really not know anything about the audience they are speaking to. Many speakers are just too overwhelmed with too many things at the back of their mind to the extent that they are unable to be present with the attendees.

Your core message may be about the same for everyone, but being present with your audience will allow you to customize the information so that they feel you are speaking personally to them. They will understand your message clearly and will hold you in high regards for creating something specifically for them. Of course, in many cases you were only slanting your information, but they wouldn’t know the difference 

Good Public Speaking Skill #5
Visualize And Expect Success. Visualize doing a wonderful job. If you allow disastrous thoughts to cascade your mind, you will scare yourself. Give yourself confidence by expecting to do well. Imagine the event as a roaring success. Know that everyone wants you to do an excellent job. Imagine yourself right before the speech, standing next to the stage, well prepared and looking your best, taking a deep breath and feeling all anxiety disappear from your mind. Follow with your mental eye that imaginary, confident walk that takes you up in front of the audience and then imagine looking them in the eye and smiling. See yourself as you confidently talk about your topic, gliding through the whole speech with a vibe that is a privilege to witness. Remember to imagine the well-deserved thunderous applause that comes at the end. Your mind is a wondrous tool that can be made to do lots of neat stuff but it’s also stupid in the endearing sense that it believes whatever you throw at it: if you keep bombarding your subconscious with images of success, the chances of that success becoming reality shoot through the roof.

Summary

Success will fall in the lap of the person who is prepared to accept it. Therefore, prepare well for success and allow it into your life when it comes knocking on your door.

Now that you have gained some useful pointers on how to become a better public speaker, I encourage you not to stop here. Keep “sharpening your saw” by getting practical experience on public speaking. Grab the opportunity to speak in public as often as possible. The more stage time you accrue, the higher your self-esteem and confidence will become. Do purchase my book called The Fearless Speaker at http://www.betterpublicspeaking.com/fearless-public-speaking-2/ This 11,500+ word book will give you more pointers towards becoming a seasoned orator. I look forward to that wonderful day in your life when you will become ‘complete’ and you will discover your true purpose in this world. May you discover it through your public speaking endeavors.

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All the best to you in all aspects of your life 🙂